Old School Friend update

Remember how I thought I hit paydirt with this one...NOT so much. Turns out I should have trusted my original instinct. I think our personalities are just not a good match! He is a sensitive guy when he wants to be but I think that he has been through so much in his life that it is virtually impossible for him to let me in. I also think that I am dealing with some sort of personality dysmorphia. I had a perception of this guy as "playa" for so long...that it is virtually impossible for me to see him in a different light (which is crazy because I would never consider myself a particularly RIGID person)...

SO I have not shut it down completely...but I think it is on its way out of the door..

Can I get a big AWWWWW?